Masturbation without fantasy would be too lonely. The statements above are typical of my contributors. Clinical evidence shows that male desire has a pattern of sharp rise, a high peak, and sharp decline. Men’s fantasies follow a similar line, often taking off from some immediate stimulus. Drake (below) says that when he masturbate he has “the best orgasms by fantasizing about a particularly good-looking woman that I have seen that day.” The fantasy moves from climax to climax, in short takes, rarely lingering, always hurrying on toward the inevitable sexual eruption.]

Men are more prone than woman to acting out sexual day-dreams, precisely because they often begin so close to reality. “What if that blonde across the room came over to my table, and she did this, and I do that. Then we’re joined by the brunette waitress, and she does this incredible new thing…”